Asking Yourself the Right Questions

In any type of relationship there may come a time when it is simply not worth dealing with the problems that this person brings. If you are starting to feel like you are being mistreated, taken advantage of, or not shown the attention you need from someone then it may be time to ask yourself some important questions to determine if they are someone that is worth keeping around.

One of the big questions that I like to ask myself when I feel those ways is, is this a person that brings more positivity to my life or negativity? If the answer is negativity then that is not someone that you want to be spending a lot of time with in your life. It doesn’t always mean that you never have to talk to them again depending on the situation. It may just mean that you should distance yourself from that person more and spend less time with them and more time with people that have a net positive impact in your life. Another thing you should ask yourself about a relationship you feel these ways about is, would my life be better if I spent less time with them? Lastly you should ask yourself simply, Is this person a good person that for the most part does unto others in their daily life? If the answer to this is no, then this is probably someone that you should separate yourself with and certainly not go into any situation with them that requires trust.