Setting Boundaries

In the event that someone is not such a negative impact to your life that they deserve to be removed from your life completely, then it is important to set healthy boundaries with that person so that you can spend more time with positive people in your life. This does not necessarily mean that you should tell them, hey I don’t want to be around you as much anymore, but you may want to simply not invite them when doing something with more positive people. You may want to also slow your responses on your communication or even talk with them about the things that you are upset about if they are doing you wrong. In my case most of the people I have separated from in my life either did me wrong and I decided to not talk with them again or they are just not positive influences on my life and although I still have love for them I maintain some distance while I focus on my dreams and aspirations. Whatever your situation, think hard about what the best action is to take with them because a lot of words and actions cannot be taken back. You still don’t want to lose a good friend even if they are not on the level that you strive for. Respect the emotions of people and be the bigger person when you have been wronged.